We don't care about nudity in our house. Riley showers with us, gets dressed with us, whatever. We don't hide nudity around here.
We also only hold hands if there is a safety issue. Like a busy parking lot or a busy street to cross. But encourage Riley to just stay next to us. If it is a busy area we do hold hands.
We allow him to walk away from us in stores, at 4 years old. Even to go into the next aisle without us! *GASP*
We allow and encourage him to talk to strangers!
We encourage him to do things that push him. For example, climbing up & down the ladder. We help if he needs it, but we encourage him to do new things without help.
He got a chore chart when he turned 3. And is expected to do the chores.
When I tell him to do something, he is allowed to say no. He needs to do it, but he can express that he doesn't want to. Guess what, some days, I don't wanna do it either!
I'm sure I'll think of more!